Never too late to realise dreams..

After my trek and awakening on the Himalayas, I knew what I wanted from life. Bike and mountains!

I was working on getting a job somewhere close to mountains but before I could, I found someone with whom it felt like life could become an adventure. So I married him and moved countries.

The dream of biking was done with. I had moved on and never looked back. Although mountains were still part of, now, our life. I started to embrace many other hobbies and passions.

On the other hand, my husband used to be a biker and still wanted to get into it. I supported and pushed him to achieve his dream, years after our wedding. My dream was long forgotten, without any regrets.

He would always encourage me to get into but I would push that away, without realising.

When we pregnant with our second child, we were driving back from a beach date and the forgotten dream as if just snapped back.

I shared with him. He was surprised that I had so much passion for bikes too. Since that day, it became his dream to get me into biking. And as if the dream returned to me.

After a couple of years, I took the theory test and the CBT. Meanwhile, my husband secretly worked on building a bike for me.

Patience is a virtue -registration, MOT, insurance etc. At last, before the summer of ’25 ended, I got to riding.

Thus begin my biking stories!

Everyone Plays their Roles…

No one is really yours

Everyone is just playing their roles

If you think, they are yours

Believe me, my friend, you’re wrong

 

There are moments of light

When you feel bright

Your hope rises, and dreams shine

If you think, they are yours

Believe me, my friend, you’re wrong

 

When you love, they love you back

When you respect, they respect you back

But in moment of truth, they hold back

Then you realise, the square one is back

 

Then you realise, you’re all alone

Everyone is just playing their role

Bake…..Set….Ting: Aromas of Life!

I hadn’t thought I’d write about this until the day I baked because I realised my page isn’t just a travel blog, it is about sharing experiences of exploring myself. Doing anything new is exploringoneself. Bringing out hidden capabilities and developing new skills. Therefore, here we go.

Since I was a teen, I have always enjoyed being home alone. With my husband travelling to Africa, I was going to be on my own for 10 days – one more thing to check off as first times. I had made a list of things I would do which broadly consisted of watching movies / tv series that I like, trying my hands at baking, and shopping!!! Movies / tv series didn’t turn out that well until 4th/5th day and being a ‘skinflint’, shopping was also regular, nothing special. So let’s talk about what happened with baking.

It was Friday evening. First weekend alone, he has never left me alone in these years. I decided to bake Shepherd’s Pie and checked the recipe online. I had all the ingredients (or so I thought) to make ‘my’ version of the pie – that’s a better way to put it than to say I made the pie from whatever I had available. As soon as I began gathering the ingredients, I realised I didn’t have butter. Cannot prepare the potato mash without butter! All right, I decided to quickly pop out to a co-op next door. The guy on the counter said he cannot take card payment for less than £5. Duh!

While walking back home to get some cash, thoughts filled my mind. God has mysterious ways of playing games when you are on the roll to have fun. I think He enjoys putting little obstacles, perhaps to check how determined you are! I always love playing these little Chess games with Him. I also missed India so much – in India, all local shopkeepers know you and in a situation like this they say, “Koi baat nahi behenji, kal de dena..” (Don’t worry ma’am, pay tomorrow).

Following the recipe outline, I prepared the ingredients, heated the oven and now it was time to be patient. I kept checking from the oven ‘window’ for the potato layer to turn a bit golden. I ended up baking longer than recommended in the recipe but the outcome was simply delicious!

Yes it is a lot. A lot for me. It served me for lunch and dinner for the next day as well.

 

Delighted with my first experience, next on list was scones. I had checked ingredients, shopped in advance, had checked the recipe several times and had also observed a friend bake them nearly a week ago. The waiting time was difficult to pass which I managed, although checking frequently how my scones were doing. It was relishing to watch the scones rise. A feeling of accomplishment. I took them out and found out they had risen into a weird shape! However when I tasted them after they had cooled, they were really good. Every ingredient was in its correct proportion. Although I could have let them bake for a little longer and made them little smaller in size.

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Butter Scones

 

Second straight success boosted my confidence. Next day was the short bread day. Same story – all ingredients checked, batter prepared – had to keep adding flour to get the correct thickness because I added too much butter – but the rest remains the same. The wait, the peeping through the window, opening and checking the aroma – the same emotions. Once done and cooled, I took a piece, and… ..and they were delicious just that we cannot name them shortbread!! They were soft as a cookie. Too much butter I believe.

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Short Bread

 

But hey, that’s what we all do. We all make mistakes the first time round – at least I am brave to write it on the blog!

Anyhow I hope you enjoyed the read and that it triggered memories of similar stories. Stay tuned with this page for more fun stories 😊

 

 

Written by: Chahna D.

Edited by: Milauni T.